Dr.Koch’s Relationship Advice and Free Resources To Schedule: Call 619-800-5624 or Schedule Online

Dr.Koch’s Relationship Advice and Free Resources
To Schedule: Call 619-800-5624 or Schedule Online

The purpose of the Imago-based intimacy group is to do the psychological work that will help each group member have better relationships and regain wholeness and aliveness. This Relationship Readiness work includes:

Saying goodbye to past partners. Unresolved attachment to grief over the loss of previous partners or relationships often interferes with openness to a new relationship.

Learning from past relationships. Looking at and changing repetitive patterns.

Identifying emotional wounds from childhood.

Identifying the character structure and character defenses developed to cope with wounds. Through this work we begin to heal our emotional wounds. Relationships become a place of healing rather than a place of re-wounding.

Understanding the origins of self-hatred and how it functions in developing character structure and partner selection. Self-rejection and self-hatred are the source of most difficulties in a relationship. They arise out of repression of parts of the self, which were rejected by parents and subsequently rejected by oneself. This serves as a defense against the danger of being rejected by others and thus re-wounded.

Sound complicated? The theory might be, but this group is about learning to take NEW action, and to move you toward CONNECTING with others in a safe, healing environment. The theory is less important than taking action to improve your relationships.

Interested in this group, but need more info? Contact me. If you think you’d like to join the group, you can schedule a free consultation with me to see if the group will help you achieve your relationship goals. Just go to the Schedule Online page.

What we Work on in the “Keeping the Love You Find” Men’s Group.

Saturday, June 28, 2008

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